By Fr Francis Gonsalves, SJ –
Though Santa Claus often occupies centre-stage at Christmas, let’s not forget its real centre: Christ! ‘Christmas’ literally means ‘sending of Christ’, God’s Anointed One. Evangelist John says succinctly, “God so loved the world that He sent his only son that whoever believes in him might be saved” (Jn 3:16). Rejoice! God sent Jesus to proclaim good news of love, joy, justice and peace.
You’ve erected a crib at home, right? ‘Crib’ evokes many images. As a noun, it refers to a baby’s sleeping-cot or an eating-trough where cattle consume fodder. Moreover, the verb ‘to crib’ could either mean copying someone else’s work or complaining about something or someone.
‘Cribbing’ originates in the animal world where, strangely, instead of eating fodder, a horse suffering from ‘cribbing’ begins biting wood of the feeding-trough with its teeth, and consequently swallows air. Cribbing is not a horse-disease as such, but rather an inappropriate behavioural pattern in horses called ‘stereotypic behaviour’.
Often, we, like horses, also exhibit obsessive-compulsive behaviour that is non-lethal, but yet destructive. Like horses, we begin cribbing—sowing hate, when we’re created to love; seeking revenge, when pardon is pathway to peace; and, spreading sorrow, when happiness is what keeps us hearty and healthy.
This Christmas, instead of cribbing about everything, let’s contemplate the Christmas crib where Joseph, Jesus’ foster-father and Mary—his mother, who conceived him by the power of God’s Spirit—gave birth to Jesus and laid him in a crib, far removed from the hustle and bustle of society.
Born in Bethlehem—literally meaning ‘house of bread’ — Jesus later preaches: “I am the bread of life,” meaning, anyone who follows his message of love, joy, justice and peace will savour sustenance for body and spirit. Jesus is known worldwide as a Premavatar—the incarnation of selfless love. Christmas teaches us to be kind and loving to all.
Mary surrenders to God’s will despite difficulties which endanger her, Joseph and the Christ-child. She is a model of faith in God. Finally, Joseph, is the silent worker. There is not a single recorded word of Joseph, the carpenter, in the Bible. However, he is the hopeful, helpful one—leading Mary and Jesus from their native Nazareth to Bethlehem, then, to Egypt, and finally back to Nazareth.
Rather than merely making cribs, this Christmas, we could all be cribs—certainly not by cribbing, but by assuming the role of Jesus in our loving, by being like Mary in our servant-surrender to God, and by silently helping others weighed down by difficulties, like Joseph.
When you wish someone “Merry Christmas” you want her/him to have fleeting fun. And, when you wish “Happy Christmas” you seek health and happiness. Personally, I prefer wishing you: “Have a Mary-Christmas” overflowing with love, hope, peace and joy.
CBCI National Parish Level Crib Contest
Submission dates: Dec 27-31, 2018
Just a small description and pictures to be submitted.
Fr. Francis Gonsalves is a Gujarat Jesuit, former Principal of Vidyajyoti College, Delhi, and currently Dean of Theology at Jnana-Deepa Vidyapeeth, Pune. He is also the Executive Secretary of the CCBI Commission for Theology and Doctrine. He has authored many books and articles and is a columnist with The Asian Age and The Deccan Chronicle national dailies.