By Fr. Antony Christy, SDB-
7th October, 2018: 27th Sunday in Ordinary Time
Gen 2: 18-24; Heb 2: 9-11; Mk 10: 2-16
FAMILY is the basic unit of a holistic humanity, not the individual. Where this fact is gainsaid, we see the genesis of every problem the world is infested with today. The Word today invites us to dwell on this theme of Family. This day was chosen in 2015 to begin the 14th Ordinary Synod of Bishops, which reflected on the theme: The Vocation and Mission of the Family in the Church and the Contemporary World.
Listening to Challenges: In a world that is filled with individualism, materialism and consumerism, the family has become an entity that is seen as an hindrance, a block, a burden that slows down one’s personal progress towards self fulfillment. In the Gospel, Jesus underlines the problems of infidelity and unchastity around the reality of marriage.
With the increasing numbers of divorce, reducing numbers of marriages, growing justification of co-habitation, newer claims to the nature of marriage, we are called to listen to the times and understand the challenges involved in building a family today. As a true disciple of Christ, what do you think of Marriage? How do you look at your Family? Listen to yourself… listen to yourself against the background of the Word of God, not just going with the trends of the world. It is important to listen to yourself, because from your thoughts are born your choices!
Discerning Vocations: The First reading highlights an indelible nature of marriage and family. Being a Family or a Marriage is a vocation. It is not a phenomenon that happens by default. It has to be a conscious choice, well discerned and taken up with absolute commitment.
Discerning Vocations here would mean the need for persons to make a choice and the role of the community in helping a person make that choice with ease and seriousness. It would mean also the need of the pastors and those who play that role in some manner or degree, to accompany individuals within this context. Right now there is a Synod going on too: Youth, Faith and Vocational Discernment. It is important that the young are led to think, reflect, listen to God speaking in and through them, discern the right modes of living with conviction and joy!
Exploring the Mission of the Family Today: In the second reading we see that the Word reminds us of the most fundamental function of a family: it makes us brothers and sisters in the Lord. Though every person is an individual, each with his or her interests and motives, dreams and vision, desires and ambitions, we are never islands. We are called to live in a family, to begin with and that family is required to become the basic building block of a humanity that is loving, respectful and caring towards everyone else around us.
Today a Christian family specially has an enormous responsibility, a mission to accomplish – Evangelisation. To evangelise is to share the love of God to the world today. A family is a lived experience of God’s love on a daily basis – to share that love with everyone around and with the world at large is simply what Evangelisation means today. Specially against the background of war and injustice, exploitation and domination, violence and crime, terrorism and fanaticism, the Christian families have to become beacons that bear out true love and compassion reminding the world of the Lord who is ever present in our midst and the Lord who is madly in love with you and me.
We are created as families, to live in families and to call this entire humanity to become one great, big, loving family of the children of God. Shall we begin it at home and begin it today?
Fr Antony Christy is a Salesian Priest from 2005, who has a Masters in Philosophy (specialisation in Religion) and a Masters in Theology (Specialisation in Catechetics). He is currently pursuing his doctoral research in Theology at Salesian Pontifical University, Rome. Walking with the Young towards a World of Peace and Dialogue is the passion that fires him on.